My fiance and I are not the traditional type of people but our families are. While we would have been just as fine in not sending out invitations, it turns out that the families are pressuring for some sort of formalities. We are going on a cruise and getting married aboard ship so we need to find wedding invitations that will satisfy both the wedding couple and the families. I do not want to spend a great deal on the invitations because we already know who is going and who is not, but again, some of the family members like the formality.